Build up merit |
A layperson expressed the desire to go on a meditation retreat, but was concerned about her grown son being left alone.
When a man and a woman are in love, the world becomes a colorful place filled with sweet beauty. But once a first child is born, everyday is a quarrel!
If you don't want a heavy burden, then don't have any children. But if you have them, then you must accept full responsibility.
You can't desert them.
As for me, I have no one with which to concern myself with, except my merit.
In each of us, we carry merit and demerit, and we must do all we can to increase the merit.
I'm a fighter. I never back down from problems until I find the solution.
But when you are asked to help someone, first take a good look at yourself and determine if you are really capable of helping this person.
If his problems are beyond your abilities to solve, then accept that and practice equanimity.
You cannot help someone who will not listen; it is up to his own kamma.
As for ourselves, we have to make the best with what is given to us. |
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